You’re not failing—you’re just carrying too much

 

What if this season of burnout isn’t a failure… but an invitation?

If you feel like you’re carrying the emotional and spiritual weight of your whole family—while secretly falling apart inside—you’re in the right place.

Let’s help you exhale, reconnect with God, and come home to yourself again.

 

JOIN THE 30-DAY SOUL RESET NOW

Here’s why I created Unburdened—and how it can change your life.

 

I created Unburdened because I know the quiet ache of holding it all together—while wondering when it will finally be your turn to feel held. After becoming a mom, I completely lost sight of who I was beneath all the roles.

I was the one everyone turned to, but I didn’t even know how to turn toward myself—or God. I was burned out, bitter, and buried in pressure I thought was just part of being a "good" wife, mom, and woman of faith. But God met me in the unraveling. He didn’t ask me to do more. He asked me to come back to Him.


And I’ve seen the same story unfold with so many of the women I coach. They come to me exhausted, overwhelmed, and unsure of who they are anymore. Somewhere along the way, they lost their identity—and with it, their vision. But during our work together, they begin to wake up. They hear their voice again. They remember their worth. And that’s what Unburdened is. Not a course. A soul reset. Whether you’re married or not, a mom or not—if you’re tired of overfunctioning and craving peace, this is for you. Let it change your life the way it changed mine: by reminding you that you are worthy of rest, connection, and God’s gentle presence right now—not someday.

“Amanda was everything I needed..."

 

I found Amanda at a time when I was really struggling with my career and the future of my work life. Amanda was professional, attentive, smart, set big yet achievable goals, and was everything I needed to focus on what was important for me. If you're looking for a little (or a lot) of guidance in your life (career or otherwise) I could not recommend her more.

 

TEELE S

Does this sound like you?

 

Surrounded, but Still Alone


You sit on the couch at the end of the day, surrounded by everyone you love—yet still feel completely alone.

No One Checks on You


You’re the one remembering appointments, planning meals, and making sure everyone’s okay… but no one checks in on you.

Too Tired to Ask for Help


You avoid asking for help because you don’t even know what to ask for anymore—and you’re not sure anyone would understand.

Avoiding the Hard Conversations


You keep putting off the hard conversations with your husband because you’re afraid of making things worse, not better.

Saying Yes When You Mean No


You say yes when you mean no, then smile through it while silently resenting it.

Snapping, Then Spiraling in Guilt


You find yourself snapping at your kids or your spouse—and then spiraling in guilt for it later.

Who Even Am I Anymore?


You look in the mirror and barely recognize the woman staring back at you.

Well, just imagine if...


💫 You stopped silencing what you feel and finally heard your own voice—and God’s—clearer than ever (From Self-Silencing to Soul-Listening).


đź’« You expressed your truth with grace instead of walking on eggshells, and your husband responded with love instead of defensiveness (From Peacekeeping to Peacemaking).


💫 You no longer felt like the emotional manager of everyone’s life, and instead felt carried by God’s grace (From Doing It All to Letting God In).


💫 You said “no” without spiraling into guilt—and actually felt proud of yourself for honoring your limits (From Burnout to Boundaries).


đź’« You stopped pouring from an empty cup and finally prioritized the care of your own heart, mind, and soul (From Burnout to Boundaries).


💫 You looked around your home and noticed it felt lighter—not because anything changed externally, but because you changed internally (From Carrying It Alone to Coming Back to Yourself).


💫 You reconnected with your husband or your kids in a way that felt genuine, not forced—because you weren’t showing up from depletion anymore (From Doing It All to Letting God In).


💫 You stood in the mirror and saw more than your roles—you saw a woman who is grounded, led by the Spirit, and unshakably loved (From Carrying It Alone to Coming Back to Yourself).

Say Yes to Your Soul Reset

“I will be recommending Amanda to others in my circle as I found tremendous benefit from working with her."
 

I enjoyed the work I did with Amanda on my confidence most. I think that's served me the most since we started working together and I know that it will continue to serve me. I have struggled with my confidence my whole life and it's only now as I’m working with Amanda that I'm starting to finally feel like I've made progress in this area! I will be recommending Amanda to others in my circle as I found tremendous benefit from working with her.

LEAH

INTRODUCING

UNBURDENED


A 30-Day Soul Reset for the Christian woman who’s done performing, tired of holding it all together, and ready to feel like herself again—with God at the center.

I’m Ready to Be Unburdened

4 Soul-Led Audio Teachings

Weekly Reflection + Journal Prompts

 

Personalized Voxer Coaching

90-Minute Strategy + Prayer

“I am more confident and clear in my communication with my husband. I tell him my expectations & I love myself more!

Before working with Amanda, I didn’t really talk to my husband much.

Now I talk with him much more and talk more openly. I am also not avoiding conflict as much.

Amanda is great but I already knew that. She is so kind and loving. Holds me accountable in such a respectable way. She truly and sincerely wants the best for me.”


DEB

Here’s what you get:

 

✅ 4 Soul-Led Audio Teachings (20–25 min each)


✅ Weekly Reflection + Journal Prompts


✅ Personalized Voxer Coaching 

Think of Voxer like having me in your back pocket: it’s a powerful voice and text messaging app where you can process in real time, ask for prayer, or get coaching when you need it most—without waiting for your next call.


✅ 90-Minute Private Strategy + Prayer Session


✅ Full Bonus Bundle

(Forgiveness Fast Track, 100 Questions for Connection, Mental Load Playbook, 100 Ideas to Reconnect)


âś… VIP: Weekly Private 1-1 Coaching Sessions


✅ VIP: Two Voxer Days of Unlimited Support + Coaching

When you invest in yourself through Unburdened, you're not just signing up for a program—you’re creating space for soul transformation

 YOU'LL RECEIVE:

  • A complete nervous system and spiritual reset so you can show up with calm instead of chaos
  • Clear, loving boundaries rooted in biblical truth that protect your peace and relationships
  • A coaching container that prioritizes your voice, your needs, and your identity in Christ
  • Tools that help you shift from emotionally overwhelmed to grounded and secure
  • Somatic, faith-based practices you can return to long after the program ends
  • A custom blend of scripture, reflection, and real-time support tailored to your life
  • Tangible practices to reconnect with God, your family, and your sense of self
  • A safe space where you're finally not the one holding it all—because you're held

WEEK 1:

From Self-Silencing to Soul-Listening

WEEK 2:

From Peacekeeping to Peacemaking

WEEK 3:

From Doing It All to Letting God In

WEEK 4:

From Burnout to Boundaries—and finally, Coming Back to Yourself

I’m Amanda Beilke.

 

I’m a Christian Marriage Coach, speaker, podcast host, and mom who believes that your marriage can be saved—even if you feel like you’re the only one fighting for it.

After years of coaching Christian wives through burnout, resentment, and emotional loneliness. I 
created The Love Map Institute to help women heal their marriages from the inside out.

I combine biblical truth, emotional regulation, somatic tools, and real-life communication strategies to create lasting change—without dragging your husband to therapy or convincing him to do this with you.
 

Your marriage matters. And so do you. 

Certified, Experienced, and Called to Help Wives Heal from the Inside Out

  • Certified Mastery Method Coach
  • Certified NLP Practitioner
  • Somatically trained + Trauma Informed, faith-rooted Christian coach
  • Host of The YOU Matter Podcast
  • Writer of the Vows & Verses Substack
  • 9+ years coaching Christian women
  • Former corporate leader turned full-time coach
  • 500+ clients served in 15 different countries through 1:1 + group coaching & corporate speaking
  • Founder of The Love Map Institute
  • Married, Mama, Friend & passionate about helping wives lead with love—without losing themselves

Amanda is honestly the best! She is such a professional and one of the most encouraging people I have ever encountered.

 

I was at a point in life where I was lost on what I wanted for my future and even through all of my twists and turns and "changed my mind!" moments, she has been there and encouraged me. She meets you exactly where you are, which is my favorite part about her. I would 100% recommend working with Amanda if you are needing guidance on your future!

 

BEKAH D.

This is DEFINITELY for you, if:

You’re the go-to for everyone else’s needs, but secretly wonder who sees you.

You love Jesus but feel like you’ve lost your connection to Him—and yourself.

You’re waking up already tired and dreading another day of carrying it all.

You’re emotionally burnt out and spiritually numb, but you keep pushing through because “you’re the strong one.”

You avoid conflict and silence your needs, thinking it’s the godly thing to do—but it’s wearing you down.


You’re ready to stop pretending everything is fine and actually create space for your heart to breathe.


You’ve tried devotionals, therapy, journaling—but nothing has helped you feel truly supported and seen.

You’re willing to do the deep work—emotionally, spiritually, and practically—to finally feel at peace and come home to yourself again.

You’re exhausted and tired of not having direction or a vision for your life.

 

You feel lost and hopeless about ever getting off the hamster wheel of to-dos, endless expectations, and busy fall schedules that leave no room to breathe.

You almost don’t even recognize yourself anymore behind the responsibilities you keep taking care of for everyone else and the people pleasing patterns you slip into.

“Amanda is an amazing coach. She asks all the right questions, that gently guides you to find your own answers."
 

Amanda is an amazing coach. She asks all the right questions, that gently guides you to find your own answers. So much shifted for me working with her, and I highly recommend her to others who are looking to gain clarity and to be supported towards their goals. I felt safe, seen and heard. She is kind, supportive and truly has your best interests at heart.

ISELIN

Choose the Path That Serves You Best


You don’t need to carry it all anymore.

Each of these options is designed to help you exhale, feel held, and reconnect with God and yourself — whether you crave quiet reflection or deep 1:1 support.

Choose the pace. Choose the level of support. Either way, you’re choosing healing.

I’m Ready to Be Unburdened

“I loved this coaching experience! I loved it all. 10 out of 10. 100%!!!!! I have told everyone I know about my coaching experience and how impactful it has been for me. This has just been the best ever!”


MADALYN S

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